So for determining a listener on a port, do this
netstat -tln
You should see a line that seems like this if MySQL is indeed listening on that port.
tcp 0 0 127.0.0.1:3306 0.0.0.0:* LISTEN
Port 3306 is the MySQL's default port.
In order, to connect, you simply have to use any client you need, such as the basic MySQL client.
mysql -h localhost -u user database
Or a URL which is defined by your library code.
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